You either want it or you don’t.
If you truly want it then you do whatever it takes to get it.
If you aren’t willing to do whatever it takes, then I guess you don’t truly want it.
Success won’t be handed to you on a silver platter. Success won’t come to you without effort. Success will only come if you have an unrelenting desire for it.
For those of you reading this right now who are not willing to do what it takes, stop reading. This post isn’t for you. You are too busy making excuses, wasting your time, wasting your precious life, so stop reading this and go back to procrastination.
But if you are reading this and you can say “I AM HUNGRY FOR SUCCESS” with confidence, then read on…
I know it’s hard to see it when they are already “at the top” but those people you admire, that you aspire to be like some day, how do you think they got there? They did whatever they had to do to get there!
That means they worked day and night. They neglected friends and family. They gave up their weekends. They had laser sharp focus on one thing only – success.
And they did it with kids screaming and yelling. They did it while working a 9 to 5. They did it with no money. They did it without support of loved ones.
They did whatever they needed to to get to where they are today.
And guess what? They started out exactly how you started out – at the beginning! They didn’t just suddenly become a success. No, they started at the very beginning and built their empire step by step, day by day, failure by failure.
Don’t even get me started on failure. You’ve gotta get over the fear of failure. It’s not going to go away. And you WILL fail. Everyone does! It’s how we learn. As babies, failure is how we learn to walk. We stand up and fall down (failure), and we try again… “maybe this time I will hold onto something, maybe that will help me stand.” And guess what, it worked! You found a way even as a baby to learn from your failure and get up and give it another try.
How is it that you had more confidence as a 1 year old than you do now as an adult?
The stupid thing is – You’ve already failed at so many things in your lifetime. Did it kill you? No! Did you learn from it? Yes! So why are you so scared to fail this time?
Fail. Learn. Try again.
If you truly want success, deep down within your soul, then failure won’t stop you. You will be prepared to fail, to learn and to try again.
In all honesty, if you aren’t prepared to fail than a freedom lifestyle and business isn’t for you. Because it will take quite a few failures along the way to get to where you want to be.
If you don’t have the stomach for failure than this isn’t the path for you. Because it takes strength to completely change your life! And how do we gain that strength? By learning from our failures!
So you should be excited to fail, not scared of it. Because each time you screw up you are getting closer to getting it right and living that life you desire!
So here is my million-dollar advice….
Suck it up, get over it and DO SOMETHING! Every day you put it off is another day living in mediocracy.
No more BS excuses. No more fear of failure. Stop whining about your shitty life and do something about it!
Every single one of us has the power to change our situation. The question is – Do you have the guts to make shit happen or are you going to puss-out and live your mediocre life for another year, 5 years, 10 years?
(The above is not meant to offend or make you feel bad. It’s said with affection and hope, because you deserve the very best in life )